100. The Iron Lady

At 48, Vanessa continues satisfied with her decision to remain childless, but seeing friends unable to conceive, she wonders if she could be of help.  She reasons that a surrogate pregnancy with an implanted embryo, using either donated or anonymous sperm and ovum, would not only help friends, but would also provide her with a family of sorts.  Now caring for an aging mother, she is worried about becoming older without a family.

I told her that an IVF clinic would give her a better answer, but cautioned that she probably would not be accepted as a surrogate mother even with donated embryos.  There's too much at stake to risk the uncertainty of a 48-yr old uterus.

The film "Iron Lady" suggested to me that children or not, successful career or not, aging and loneliness are inextricably intertwined.